How to get the love you deserve:
Love is a strong emotion,
It can nourish, stimulate, encourage, legitimize, and heal. Love is who we are and the essence of its existence. If you want the love to deserve to yearn for love because it is our birthright and whether we received it unconditionally as children or not, our hearts ache for it.
First and foremost, I want to tell you, “You love!” “You discover all the love in the world” We all deserve love. This is our birthright although we may otherwise be conditional. Some of you may not feel worthy or worthy of love, some of you may be afraid to love and some of you have just decided that love is not something you want to make your own debut. Love can give you good health and look beautiful on your face.
But the big question remains:
The answer is probably the one you have heard before, but not the one you want to hear the most. Love in you You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. If this answer bothers you, as it once did to me, it makes sense. You see, we have a society of quick solutions, instant gratification, and easy solutions and unfortunately, it is an internal affair.
So if it’s inside us, you ask, why can’t I feel it? The answer is simple, yet complex. You have probably built a wall of protection around your heart at some point in your life that has taken you away from the essence of your own truth. There is a possibility of some pain in your past that can protect your heart from re-injury.
I grew up in a dysfunctional home
wite mom and dad in a sensitive home for one. There was a lack of love and it is very difficult to come by. There were moments that I loved “feeling”, but most of the time I had to get better, work harder, or do something for hot products. So with that said, I had to isolate myself from my mind in order to protect myself. It was that my oxygen supply cord was turn off so I had to tap on other resources.
You should feel your “love” from your parents or carers as a child. It is not enough for them to say that they love you when their actions do not express love. Love from the universe or God is a constant supply and flows through each of us. When a healthy parent is separate from their own love, they are not able to flow energy into their children. As children, we are very subjective and do not realize that our parents cannot “love” us, instead. We make up the story that we do not deserve love or are not lovable, or that there is something wrong with us.
And we carry those beliefs and draw on
one situation after another that echoes the same message. These beliefs have pushed our subconscious mind so far that we do not know that it is the driving force behind our lack of love. It is revealing the beliefs that will help you get the love you deserve.
When you believe that you deserve a love that is associate with blasphemy, you will need to find it. believe you deserve unconditional love, this is what you get. If you think you don’t deserve love, it will be hard for someone to love you and you will probably sabotage anything similar to love.
Make a list of what love means to you based on your childhood and past experiences. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it does not boast. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking … etc.” That’s how love is supposed to be, but many of you may have different definitions. For me, it was “leaning towards love, love is hurting and feeling insecure. love is never close and love is manipulative … etc” Once you can define what love is, then you have to dispel lies and love Can establish new money.
How to feel your deserve love?
Another good indicator of what love looks like to you is how you treat yourself. Are you self-criticizing or blaming? Are you taking care of yourself and your health? Do you have friends who don’t get along well with you? If you are perfect or perfect in yourself, it comes from a deep feeling of inadequacy and you will attract that image to others.